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How to grow a man : Turning Chumps to Hunks

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DaeinbaesDiscovered Sep 20, 2026

About the game

A 17+ BL raising sim where you decide who leads. Spend four years on classes, part-time jobs, and questionable outfits, then romance seven very different men. Your stats determine whether you end up on top or bottom, and your choices unlock dozens of endings.

Original Steam description

“What makes a true man?”

Blessed with a divine revelation from the Achillean Angel, you set out on a four-year quest to become a TRUE MAN. Your choices along the journey will affect how your story ends!

Why do BL games always lock in who’s TOP and who’s BOTTOM?

Not us! 

Depending on how you play, your relationship dynamics with all seven love interests can flip completely!

You may control him, or he may control you.

Replay the same route, and a whole new relationship dynamic will unfold!


Study, work, and take a break every now and then

Every week and every month of your four years will shape you into a completely different man.

Manners, eloquence, morality, charm… what you work on is entirely up to you! 

You can take on a part-time job as a pole dancer, a tradition in the Gayrn Kingdom!

Try all kinds of fun lessons and part-time jobs!

From cute sailor suits to seductive outfits, maid uniforms, and even nude aprons

Glasses, ribbons, animal ears, and more. Dress yourself up however you like! 

The route you take depends on where you go each month and the choices you make.

Discover steamy romances with seven very different men! 

Unlock more 17+ events and CGs.

 

Who will you be four years from now?

An honorable knight, a renowned artist, a beloved charmer, or someone's husband? 

Romance endings and career endings are handled separately, so you may even discover hidden synergy endings.

What does it take to be a real man? Your ending will reveal the answer.

 

 

 

We are Daeinbaes, a four person  indie game studio based in South Korea.

This game began in 2008 in South Korea with a simple question: “Why aren't there any games about raising men?” Now, we've completely rebuilt it from the ground up, from planning and art to development, to bring it to players around the world.

 

We make the games we want to make.

We strive to create romance filled with comedy and genuine emotion. We hope you'll encounter all kinds of relationships and stories as you play.

 

Thank you for joining us at the start of our first global adventure!

Demo and release information

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